The Consequences of Jealousy
Is it good to be jealous or we should avoid it?
I remember my younger years and my first love. I hated when any guy even approached my girlfriend not to mention when they tried to invite her for a dance. I did not feel comfortable... I was simply jealous.
There are some girls (and women) who like to flirt with a lot of guys - it makes them feel great. Contrary to it, the guys who date them usually get jealous, and I feel them!
Sometimes, the girls who want to get rid of any particular guy try to do something bad or make them jealous. When the guy goes nuts and became a villain in their eyes, they feel justified in sending you your packing because women always need justification for breaking a heart. So, don't feel bad. Just move on with your life and cross her out of your mind. It may hurt for a while but will dissolve over time.
In that case, don't try winning that girl and don't do stupid moves like:
- sending flowers to her office;
- talking to her parents, siblings, or friends over her head;
- dramatically alter your appearance (shaving your head or pierce your nose, change clothing style);
- stop dating altogether, and instead, start drinking;
- asking her friends out;
- "accidentally" run into her at the hair and nail salon.
Even if you are desperate to win her back, don't look desperate! If you want to be a man's man, control your mind and try concentrating on something useful.
Jealousy is human nature's quality. Don't torture yourself, rather recognize it and deal with it depending on the situation. Have a cool head, man. And remember, there is no true love without jealousy.
Here is a story of Justin from Canada:
"Two years ago, my girlfriend kissed my best friend and I was really pissed, but got over it. Now, I just found out that they were actually in a hot tub naked. Also, there were three of them - my girlfriend, my best friend, and some other girl. I have built a great relationship with my girlfriend, and to hear that makes me sick. What should I do?"
There are 3 things you should do:
- Get a hot tub.
- Don't marry that girl.
- Ask your friend what the trick is!
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